Why 'Just Keep Trying' Isn’t a Fertility Strategy—And What to Do Instead
- Heather Kish
- Mar 5
- 4 min read
If you’re on the journey to motherhood, chances are you’ve heard the phrase “just keep trying” more times than you can count. And if you’re anything like the women I work with, that advice leaves you feeling frustrated, exhausted, and stuck in an endless cycle of hope and heartbreak.
I know you’re doing EVERYTHING you can.
You’re tracking ovulation, taking the best supplements, researching every little symptom, and sitting through appointments that leave you with more questions than answers. But what if there was a better way—one that actually helps you move closer to pregnancy instead of leaving you feeling lost?
What If You Had a Real Plan?
Imagine waking up every morning knowing you’re doing everything possible to support your fertility—without second-guessing every food choice, every workout, or every symptom.

Here are a few things you might envision:
Nourishing your body in a way that actually improves egg quality.
Having a strategy that aligns with your cycle, not just generic advice.
Feeling confident that you’re not missing a key piece of the puzzle.
The Impact of Nutrition on Fertility
The role of nutrition in fertility cannot be overstated. What you eat significantly impacts your hormonal balance, ovulation, and overall reproductive health. According to a study published in Fertility and Sterility, women who adhered to a Mediterranean diet—rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and healthy fats—had a 40% higher chance of conception than those who followed a Western diet.
Key Nutrients for Fertility
Some key nutrients to focus on include:
Folic Acid: Essential for DNA synthesis and cell formation, it's a must for anyone trying to conceive.
Omega-3 Fatty Acids: These help regulate hormones and improve blood flow to the reproductive organs.
Zinc: Vital for egg quality and hormone regulation in both men and women.
By incorporating these essential nutrients into your diet, you are actively promoting a healthier reproductive system.
Cycle Syncing: Working with Your Body
Understanding your menstrual cycle and how it affects your fertility is another vital step. Your cycle has distinct phases—menstrual, follicular, ovulation, and luteal—and knowing how to align your activities and nutrition with these can enhance your chances of conception.

For instance, during the ovulation phase, your energy levels and libido may peak. Strategically planning intimate moments during this time can increase the likelihood of conception.
The Benefits of Cycle Syncing
Enhanced Energy: You can plan activities based on when you feel your best.
Improved Mood: Aligning your diet and exercise can lead to a significant reduction in mood swings.
Better Hormonal Balance: Syncing your lifestyle with your cycle can result in a more balanced hormonal profile.
By acknowledging the power of your body’s rhythm, you can create an empowering and effective fertility strategy.
Mind-Body Connection: The Emotional Aspect of Fertility
It's no secret that the journey to motherhood can be emotionally taxing. Stress can wreak havoc on your hormonal levels, making it harder to conceive. This is where the mind-body connection becomes essential.
Implementing stress-reduction techniques such as yoga, meditation, or mindfulness can play a significant role in regulating hormones and managing emotions.
Techniques to Reduce Stress
Yoga: Practicing yoga can improve blood flow to the pelvis, support hormonal balance, and reduce anxiety.
Meditation: Even 10 minutes a day can help calm your mind and create a positive mental state.
Journaling: Writing down your thoughts and feelings can be therapeutic and help you recognize patterns in your emotional well-being.
Integrating these practices into your life not only helps in reducing stress but reinforces the belief that you are nurturing your body both physically and emotionally.
A Proven Framework: Thrive to Motherhood
That's exactly why I created Thrive to Motherhood—a step-by-step framework designed to help you take back control of your fertility journey with clarity, confidence, and a real strategy that aligns with your body.
Inside Thrive to Motherhood, we focus on three key pillars:
Nutrition & Lifestyle: Learn exactly how to detox your diet, balance your plate, and fuel your fertility so you know you’re giving your body what it needs.
Cycle Syncing: Understand the phases of your cycle and work with your body, not against it. Timing matters and optimizing this unlocks a whole new level of fertility support.
Mind-Body Connection: Reduce stress, regulate hormones, and finally feel at home in your body again so that you can move through this journey with more ease and less overwhelm.
Feeling lost every cycle? Gone. Wondering if you’re missing something crucial? Not anymore. Doing everything alone? Not a chance.
This isn’t just about throwing more advice at you—it’s about walking you through a proven approach so that nothing slips through the cracks.
Join the Beta Waitlist: Your Next Steps
The Thrive to Motherhood Beta Waitlist Is OPEN!
This is your chance to be part of the Thrive to Motherhood beta launch before the full program rolls out. By joining now, you’ll get exclusive pre-sale pricing, special bonuses, and first access to a framework that has the power to change everything.

Spots are limited—because I want to keep this intimate and hands-on.
💛 Ready to take control of your fertility journey? DM me “THRIVE” or click here to join the waitlist today.
Your journey is unique, and you deserve a strategy that respects that. Let's walk this path together toward motherhood with intention and hope.
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